
Why do anything at all
About Me and My Lifelong mission - Living through survival
I am a philosopher by practice, a poet by instinct, and someone deeply committed to living with intention. My work lives at the intersection of reflection, language, and meaning, where clarity is not rushed, and questions are treated with care. We live in a time where the systems are breaking the fundamentals of a fulfilling life. I mean everyone wants to be main character within their story, and just because you're not some nepo baby or whatever you deem as qualifyable doesn't mean you can't and shouldn't at least try. Rather take the chance to be greatness than looking at and for greatness regretting that choice.
I believe much of life’s confusion comes not from a lack of answers, but from a lack of space to think honestly. In a world that moves quickly and demands certainty, I offer something quieter: conversation, inquiry, and the slow articulation of what matters. My approach is rooted in philosophy, lived experience, and attentive listening. I am less interested in telling people what to do than in helping them hear themselves more clearly, and to find compassion for the burdens you can't control through exploring the depths of stoicism.
Through reflective, philosophy-based dialogue, I work with individuals anywhere and everywhere who are curious about their values, patterns, identity, and direction. These conversations are not therapeutic or prescriptive in nature. I do not diagnose, treat, or promise outcomes. Instead, I hold space for all thoughts and ideas; examining assumptions, naming tensions, and exploring meaning with care and respect for autonomy.
Poetry shapes the way I think and speak. Language, to me, is not decoration but a tool for truth. Whether through writing or conversation, I’m drawn to precision, nuance, and the quiet moments where insight settles rather than announces itself.
Small habits compile to make one mama habit that will dictate your life before you ever even think of the possibility, this being with the good and the bad in everything and your perception of it. The idea is to analyze any and all habits when they present themselves to you, and listen. You cannot expect to be understood by anyone, nevertheless loving something if you don't understand the why. This makes me feel _____, why? It seems much easier to dive into why something made you upset rather than a positive due to the strength built emotion. Ignorance is bliss in hindsight sure, but its only good with no obstacles of confrontation to crash into. Unfortunately we are all the idea of the Titanic, afloat in an oceanic mind uniquely yours, every hallway within it leading you to infinite doors of who you are; people, memories/experiences, dreams/nightmares, ideas, consequences, etc of the past, future, and/or current time. An icey sea full of ice burges, most of which formed due to icey intentions and more so the consequences of that follow suit after. Its the balance of life and mother nature's scale. Not everything is your idea of good, it could be my idea of horrible while leaving you in celebrations and vise versa. The system only works for the cookie cutter idea most people aren't, in the same sense that my idea of morals differs from others. Not everything a path for you specifically, but that doesn't mean anything expect that you're good in something else, that's all that matters. You need to lose the mentally that you already do or need to control every aspect of your life, so when you get reminded of something you hold stability. You can, and I actually encourage exploration of all kinds but especially when its uncomftrable. it's instinct to find comfortability, the whole hivemid of technology is perfect representation with that.
However this is where my survival instinct philosphy expands. When you realize, because you will, that you'v e been comfortable some ideas should spin in your head depending on where you fall; fight, flight, freeze, and fawn. None of this falls under a clear ideal of good and bad, due to the complexities of these realizations and everyone being so specifically different. In the cases of majority rules, a societal idea is made and driven in similar ways of politics and the idea of democracy. To reach a compromise, both parties need to understand what they're fighting for, and why. Then the ideas of justification on either sides then hit another trial of whats a generalized idea of good and bad of that. This should be a never ending battle if you want to encourage never ending growth of comfrabiltie for the majority. People can freeze and never grow past that stage within their journey, if you live you can make whatever choice, but a society cannot. Especially in the age of "bigger better fish" and the overall hustler mentality, we are all looking for the next dime to get by and a lot of us are conditioned to take said dime from another to give you edge of having two. We live in too much abundance while others are in scary contradicting situations.
in the e but not between my ideals of good and bad vs yours, but positive and negative overall.
Another main issue with this is that too many people cannot be wrong, it doesn't have to correct in your eyes of the rules to life, but to realize that for someone else that is their paradise. Expanidng your empathy without the desire of something back, under
Freeze- Standing still, and observing the world that moves around and past you. This response can be rooted in all subcategories.
- Freezing
fear or uncertainty, or the idea of comfort and unwillingness to break out of what’s safe. It’s the concept of never leaving your hometown or home state or country. Never growing and just standing still on your path, and some will be fulfilled with this, whilst others don’t know how to start to break free from the prison of their mind that holds them back.
if the things you cannot control You are always allowed and I enforce you to hold your truths You are a reflection of everything you have and will encounter and the more you skip around the halls unlocking them to take a peak will you see how absolutely endless your options are. That all comes by slowing down and realizing what
You are never alone even if Some hallways apeaSome will be filled with the people you love, while others contain storm clouds of a lingering storm avoiding ice burges that willI value gentleness without softness, depth without obscurity, and clarity without force.
This work is for those who want to live deliberately, think deeply, and move through the world with integrity. It is for people who are less interested in being fixed than in becoming more aligned with themselves.
I don’t offer answers.
I offer a place where better questions can emerge.
˖ Can I give you an idea? ˖
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Where do you fall, and where would you like to fall instead?
Human instinct is to follow or lead; many examples are present if you think about that concept alone, and through this I discovered a subcategories of this fact. Fight, flight, and freeze, to the newfound comprehension of free will usage, as well as what they do with the found knowledge. It’s a natural and rooted instinct that is gained through life experiences and key aspects that make you who you are throughout life. However, just like everything else, you hold the keys to change your core to achieve and be whatever you so please.
Why? Is this something you can why not?
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Fight
The response that leaves someone growing assertive, to fight for or against a situation to regain control; in the situation and/or themselves. Individuals become argumentative, defensive, controlling, or aggressive to dominate a perceived threat
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Flight
This responds melts with avoidence, procratintaion, Flight, to me, has specific subcategories within it: the ones who fly distracted and the ones who fly with a destination. The ones who seek, the ones who aspire for more, flying higher grounds, praying to never kiss the floor or ceilings you despise. Flying can leave you astray but is also what allows for ways of growth and movement on your path.
Individuals run away, physically or mentally, through avoidance, procrastination, perfectionism, or quitting to avoid confrontation.
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Freeze
When fighting or fleeing is not possible, the brain shuts down, leading to a state of paralysis, dissociation, or "playing dead".
Individuals shut down, disassociate, feel stuck, or become silent/numb when overwhelmed by a situation
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Fawn/Appease
This fourth response is often added to the model. People in "fawn" mode avoid conflict by attempting to appease the threat, often sacrificing their own needs.
Individuals suppress their own needs, people-please, and conform to the demands of others to secure safety and avoid conflic
people pleasers
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